• The False Narrative: Every Woman is a Slut
• The Real Numbers: What the Data Says
• The Mirror Image: Feminists Were Psy-Op’d Too
• The Real Crisis: Isolation and Disconnection
• The Solution: Real-World Community and Real Growth
• The Final Hit: You Were Lied To, Now Do Something About It

A lot of young men today believe that most women are having sex with a different guy every weekend, racking up hundreds of partners by their mid-twenties. That belief is not only false, it is a deliberate psy-op. And many of you have fallen for it.

This belief breeds deep resentment. These young men are not having sex, not forming relationships, and not receiving any of the love, connection, or affirmation they long for. Meanwhile, it looks to them like everyone else is getting what they are being denied. That perception creates envy, and envy is the root of much of our current social ills.

It is the same emotion that fuels class warfare, the same resentment that powers the communist mindset: “If I cannot have it, no one should.” The lie that every woman is out having a hundred casual encounters is not just false, it is a psychological weapon designed to make young men bitter, hopeless, and easily controlled.

§The False Narrative: Every Woman is a Slut

This myth is everywhere online. You see it on forums, TikToks, angry memes, and YouTube rants. It paints women as unrepentant hedonists with an endless carousel of casual sex.

But what you are really seeing is a tiny percentage of highly promiscuous women who are aggressively promoting that lifestyle, not out of honesty, but because they are selling something.

OnlyFans, cam sites, and porn-linked content depend on men being desperate, addicted to fake intimacy, and emotionally weakened by constant exposure to this sexual propaganda. These women are often just mouthpieces for much larger systems of manipulation. Sometimes the agenda is financial. Sometimes it is ideological. But in either case, the goal is control.

Meanwhile, the modest women, and even the average women, the middle-of-the-road women who have a handful of partners over a lifetime, are quiet. They are not advertising themselves online. They are not trying to go viral. And so the public conversation becomes completely dominated by a loud, hyper-promiscuous minority.

This leads men to believe that these promiscuous women represent all women, but the data tells a very different story.

§The Real Numbers: What the Data Says

Since the 1980s, average sexual activity has declined. People are having less sex, not more. Most men and women report between 4 to 8 lifetime sexual partners, and that’s across their entire adult life.

Even if we account for self-reporting bias, men slightly exaggerating, women slightly underreporting, we’re not talking about hundreds. We’re talking about low double-digits at most.

And the vast majority of those encounters are not random hookups. They’re serial monogamy: short-term relationships that look like mini-marriages. Most people are dating badly, not sleeping around wildly.

§The Mirror Image: Feminists Were Psy-Op’d Too

If you’re angry at feminists for believing that every man is a predator, good. You should be. That was a psy-op too.

But if you believe that every woman is a whore? You’ve swallowed the same poison. Just in a different bottle.

Both narratives exist to divide men and women, to fill them with fear and resentment, and to prevent trust, bonding, and family formation.

§The Real Crisis: Isolation and Disconnection

There are a lot of men, roughly 50%, who are completely cut off from women, from community, and even from other men. And there are just as many women in the same boat.

Their only connection to the opposite sex is through rage-bait clips, emotionally loaded propaganda, and no healthy experiences. They’re not dating. They’re not building anything. They’re just cycling fear.

And the longer they stay disconnected, the worse the consequences. Without relationships, without families, without children, they lose their stake in the future. They stop caring about long-term outcomes because for them, there is no long term. No children means no legacy. No legacy means no responsibility.

This detachment warps everything: how they vote, how they spend, how they treat others, even how they view their own purpose. Instead of becoming stewards of civilization, they become consumers of its remains.

When you do not love anything enough to protect or preserve it, you will not hesitate to destroy it, or let it rot. That is what we are seeing now: not just moral collapse, but civilizational decay rooted in atomization and envy.

Those who form families, who anchor themselves in community and creation, develop maturity, courage, and forward vision. Those who do not become more anxious, more fragile, more disconnected from reality. The loss of love is not just emotional. It is civilization destroying.

§The Solution: Real-World Community and Real Growth

These problems barely exist in strong, healthy communities. When men and women are connected to real families, real institutions, and real elders, they date better. They marry younger. They have more children. They build things.

But to get there, you have to get out of the basement. You have to join something bigger than yourself. You have to produce value. And you have to grow up, because no healthy community will tolerate bitterness and resentment. They’ll filter you out.

And there is time pressure. The younger you are, the easier it is to join a new community, to form strong bonds, and to find a good spouse. That applies to men and women. A man in his early twenties will have a much easier time integrating into a healthy, marriage-oriented community than a man in his late thirties. Time is not your enemy yet, but it will be if you waste it.

§The Final Hit: You Were Lied To, Now Do Something About It

You were lied to. On purpose. And you’re still being lied to, every day.

But you have a choice.

You can stay angry. You can stay afraid. You can stay online, talking to other people who are rotting with you.

Or you can wake up, walk outside, and start building a life worth defending.

That choice is still yours. But not forever.