Casting Lines of Wisdom: A Father's Legacy
Great men are those who manage to offer what they never received—advice they never heard, opportunities they never found, and the support they never had.
Advice and strategies based on Old-School Philosophy.
Great men are those who manage to offer what they never received—advice they never heard, opportunities they never found, and the support they never had.
The man who controls himself in the face of humiliation has already begun his revenge.
"There are favors so great that they can only be repaid with ingratitude." — Alexandre Dumas
Just like the ancient Italians, treat those who show you courtesy and respect ten times better, and those who treat you with arrogance, intimidation, or offense a hundred times worse. People treat us only in the way we allow ourselves to be treated. In business, respect is worth more than any persuasion. Cunning may bring profit, but courtesy builds lasting bonds. Profit without honor is not truly an advantage.
Choosing the right allies is what defines victory in war. In life, learn to completely distance yourself from those who call themselves friends but are actually envious, overly critical, sycophantic, lazy, dishonorable, or untrustworthy—and most importantly, from those who have never achieved anything in life.
Excesses mask deficiencies, rigidities hide shortcomings. The heaviest armors are worn to protect fragile bodies.
Your lack of commitment and willingness to give up are an insult to those who fought before you so that you could have the opportunity to be where you are.
In this life, if you are innocent, naive, and excessively peaceful, the world will swallow you whole. The one who seeks to be good all the time will not be rewarded but ruthlessly punished.
When you promise something, keep your word. If you speak on a certain matter, take responsibility for what was said. When you make a mistake, correct yourself. When you deceive yourself, reconsider. A man without his word and good reputation is everything, except a man.
The worst battle I ever fought was between what I knew and what I felt.
Do not take seriously the opinion of a society in moral collapse, whose women wish to have a say on what it means to be a man, yet never had a true paternal reference.
davvero, all strong men are only truly tested when everything falls apart. It is easy to feel good and motivated on happy days. But in life's great adversities, we find out if we can truly withstand what was unexpected.
Sooner or later, every man will sit down to a banquet of consequences served by his own choices. His main course will either be pride or regret.
And when you achieve success, seek someone who has walked a similar path to yours, not someone who indulged in worldly pleasures while you worked hard.
You are not innocent because of your mistakes and failures. A man can never outsource blame. Never claim that the wind is at fault for the mess when it was your responsibility to keep the window closed.
True loyalty belongs only to your family. Never swear allegiance to a flag that despises you. The State is your most disloyal enemy.
Unchecked rage destroys in seconds what patience builds over a lifetime. He who governs himself will never be a slave to circumstances.
If the success of your plans depends on someone else's help, believe this: you have already failed.
A woman who understands you may accept you out of pity, but the one who admires you will follow you to the end with pride. The woman who truly admires you sees value in your battles, not just in your victories.
Your woman is not your therapist. Every time you whine, complain about life, or expose your vulnerabilities, she will lose the respect and admiration she has for you. Solve your problems like a man and do not bring worries and insecurities into your family.