Source: MEN DID THAT [Do women like strong men or not?] Channel: hoe_math (PsychoMath) Published: April 19, 2026 | Archived: April 20, 2026

Video: \[MEN DID THAT \[Do women like strong men or not?\]](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOlZ-E7tgCQ)
Channel: hoe_math (PsychoMath)
Published: April 19, 2026
Duration: 12:32
Views: 148,573
Category: Education
Video ID: pOlZ-E7tgCQ

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Women love to say that they hate things they like and that they like things they hate. Why do they do that?

And why do they say they’re not impressed by muscle? Aren’t they?

Well yeah, they are. But most of them either don’t know it or won’t say it. Because WOMEN DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

Men often ask women: “What do you want?” What they mean is: “What makes you want to have sex?” (Bad Boy Points)

Women almost always answer with: “Here is what I think makes a good husband and father.” (Good Guy Points) These things have absolutely nothing to do with their sex drives.

Why do they do that?

Because women are VERY UNCONSCIOUS beings compared to men, and even though they know what makes them feel desire, they don’t think of that as “what I want.” They just ASSUME THAT YOU KNOW this (unconscious behavior) and then tell you to do all the things that don’t work.

Here’s an analysis of a girl who’s getting it wrong about a guy who got it wrong.

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Transcript — YouTube panel (human-authored)

0:00 Who convinced us that getting huge and putting on muscle would attract women? Men did that. 0:09 9 seconds The idea is pretty simple. Work out, build muscle, and get girls. Basically, 0:15 15 seconds getting fit can transform you from this guy into this guy. So, where does this idea come from? 0:22 22 seconds Other men convinced you of that. 0:25 25 seconds Of course, that’s not really true. She’s only saying that because feminists hate their fathers and they want men to fail and then they end up alone and they 0:33 33 seconds can’t figure out why. Modern women will try to tell you that they don’t like strength and it’s always a lie. This one’s trying to tell you that working 0:42 42 seconds out to build muscle is gay because women don’t like it and men do. And that’s not what’s happening here. What’s actually 0:49 49 seconds going on here is the more that a man likes something, the more that he’ll say it. This is a speech bubble up here. And the more that a woman likes something, 0:57 57 seconds the more she hopes that you’ll figure it out. This is a thought bubble down here for the more secret category. In other words, women do like strong men, but a 1:05 1 minute, 5 seconds lot of them lie about it, especially feminists because they hate you. And it looks like this. It’s the same every time. What do you want? Don’t work out. 1:14 1 minute, 14 seconds Here you go. Ew. The studies on this are very conclusive. This one says estimates of physical strength determined over 70% 1:22 1 minute, 22 seconds of men’s bodily attractiveness. And contrary to popular theories, in other words, feminist noises, the strongest 1:30 1 minute, 30 seconds men were always the most attractive. And the working theory is that women prefer this because it shows that you can fight. Remember, bad boy stuff is what 1:40 1 minute, 40 seconds they find attractive, even if they don’t admit it. Here’s another study. The preference gets even stronger when the 1:47 1 minute, 47 seconds relationship is short-term, which means that’s what they want for their children. What else are short-term relationships even for? Long-term 1:55 1 minute, 55 seconds relationships are for resources, for supportiveness of various kinds. 2:00 2 minutes Short-term are for DNA. So, women desire supportiveness emotionally. That’s the part they say out loud speech bubble. 2:08 2 minutes, 8 seconds And they desire strength sexually various kinds, including physical. The only exception is if you’re a ridiculous 2:15 2 minutes, 15 seconds huge bodybuilder with a six-pack or a 12-pack. But that’s not because you became too strong. It’s because you became a muscle princess, which uh is 2:25 2 minutes, 25 seconds gay. Most women are not looking for this. They’re looking for something more like this or even this. Clearly fit, but not overdoing it. Most women will 2:34 2 minutes, 34 seconds probably actually tell you that they prefer this guy because this one looks like he spends all his time taking selfies at the gym, and this one looks 2:41 2 minutes, 41 seconds like he gets things done. So, even this guy might be a little too close to muscle princess. But you don’t have to worry about becoming one by accident. 2:51 2 minutes, 51 seconds Once again, this is me at my second peak of physical fitness. I had one when I was 25 and another when I was 32. I put 2:58 2 minutes, 58 seconds in a lot of work to achieve this, and I promise it helped a lot with women. I did not make it into the muscle princess 3:06 3 minutes, 6 seconds category. I did not need to have a six-pack. Do you see how my six-pack is kind of sort of peeking through here in 3:14 3 minutes, 14 seconds these shadows, but there’s just a little too much dough? This body was very popular with women. So, you don’t have 3:21 3 minutes, 21 seconds to be perfect, and you also don’t have to worry about going overboard. It’s just stronger is better. It’s real 3:28 3 minutes, 28 seconds simple. So, unless you’re dedicating your life to the gym, the more you build muscle and the less you store fat, the more that women will like you in general. I could have done better here, 3:37 3 minutes, 37 seconds but it was good enough. Speaking of doing better, this video is sponsored by ODG Supply, who has everything you need for when the government decides that 3:46 3 minutes, 46 seconds your house is now reparations for Somalians. Get gear for marching, 3:50 3 minutes, 50 seconds camping, night vision, and more. All tested by these totally non-mitia. They just love nature, okay? Lifting is enough for the club, but not for global 3:58 3 minutes, 58 seconds Rhdesia. So, check out odgsupply.com and get some stuff to build the skills you’re probably going to need soon. Use 4:05 4 minutes, 5 seconds code homemath 12 for 12% off almost everything. Getting fit is good enough for the good times, and these were the most fit times of my life, and they were 4:13 4 minutes, 13 seconds some of the best times of my life. These other ones were good for different reasons, and those results match perfectly with the research. So, don’t 4:20 4 minutes, 20 seconds let feminists tell you that women don’t want strong men. But if that’s true, what’s this guy talking about? 4:27 4 minutes, 27 seconds I post my physique, 47 responses, 47 DMs. Guess who they were? men. Only men. 4:36 4 minutes, 36 seconds Okay, when you say it that way, it sounds gay, but that’s not what’s happening. In the social sciences, they call this a failure of cross sex mind 4:44 4 minutes, 44 seconds readading. You might know it better as being a And both of them are doing it. Let’s go back to zones version 4:52 4 minutes, 52 seconds two. Again, men talk out loud about the women they like and the things they like about women. Speech bubble. And as we 5:00 5 minutes like women less and less, we’re less willing to talk about them. even if we do hang out sometimes. Thought bubble 5:07 5 minutes, 7 seconds lower on the chart is more secret. So a failure of cross- sex mind readading 5:15 5 minutes, 15 seconds means that if you’re a man, you think women are going to act like men and say the things they like out loud. And if you’re a woman, you think men are going 5:23 5 minutes, 23 seconds to act like women and focus on their looks mostly to mog other men instead of to attract the opposite sex. 5:32 5 minutes, 32 seconds I mean, just listen to howing ret sorry, 5:35 5 minutes, 35 seconds just listen to how bad of a failure of cross sex mind readading it is when this girl hears this guy say he’s working out for girls and then tells him, “No, 5:46 5 minutes, 46 seconds you’re doing it for guys.” 5:47 5 minutes, 47 seconds A while back, I made a video where I said that men think that women do everything for male attention because 5:55 5 minutes, 55 seconds men do everything for male attention. I post my physique. 47 responses. 47 DMs yesterday were men. 6:05 6 minutes, 5 seconds Only men. 6:06 6 minutes, 6 seconds It It didn’t seem like he wanted the male attention. You see what I’m getting at? I’m not sure how you got that from 6:14 6 minutes, 14 seconds his reaction. He says what he wants and she doesn’t believe him because she doesn’t say what she wants. This is 6:21 6 minutes, 21 seconds because women say things out loud that make them look good, presentable, and men say things out loud that they 6:29 6 minutes, 29 seconds actually want. And the things women actually want, the things that make them feel desire, they keep quiet about that 6:37 6 minutes, 37 seconds so they don’t look bad. More secret thought bubble. If women walked around saying things like, “I want a 6’5 6:45 6 minutes, 45 seconds vampire mafia boss.” Like in my old video, Aby’s Perfect Man. Men would just not marry them. We would go, “Jesus, I 6:52 6 minutes, 52 seconds don’t want to have to drink blood to hang on to a bratty mid. And if I did, I would still be 5’11 and I don’t think the mafia takes vampires.” And then the 7:01 7 minutes, 1 second species would die, you know, like it is right now. And so women lie about what they want. That’s how evolution works. 7:08 7 minutes, 8 seconds And some of them don’t even know they’re doing it. And that’s why they think you’re doing it, too. So that explains why she thinks men are working out for 7:16 7 minutes, 16 seconds each other instead of for women and why she probably does like stronger men, but either she doesn’t want to say it or she 7:25 7 minutes, 25 seconds just doesn’t want to believe that about herself even though she feels it all the time. Kind of like if you were scared of a bug and you screamed and then you 7:34 7 minutes, 34 seconds tried to convince yourself it was actually a war cry. Let’s see how her idea worked out. And a lot of men did not like this idea. 7:42 7 minutes, 42 seconds The common response I got was, “I don’t do everything for male attention.” Or, 7:46 7 minutes, 46 seconds “Well, women do things for other women’s attention.” Well, yeah, no Lots of women do things for women’s attention, 7:55 7 minutes, 55 seconds not for male attention, which was my original point, 7:59 7 minutes, 59 seconds right? Men compete directly out in the open, and women play nice and quietly mo each other. 8:07 8 minutes, 7 seconds Now, this man may be trying to get women’s attention with this build that he has created. However, he lives in a society where the only attention it’s going to get is other men’s. 8:17 8 minutes, 17 seconds So, this is where it all comes together. 8:19 8 minutes, 19 seconds When she says that getting huge is only going to get attention from other men, 8:24 8 minutes, 24 seconds what she means is immediate attention out in the open like on Instagram once again because that’s what she wants. She 8:32 8 minutes, 32 seconds wants the attention and she thinks that you want what she wants, which is a failure of whatever. It’s stupid. Women 8:40 8 minutes, 40 seconds post to social media because they want immediate attention right now where everyone can see it. I am the princess. 8:49 8 minutes, 49 seconds I have the most likes. So, she thinks that he’s trying to be muscle princess. 8:54 8 minutes, 54 seconds As if he’s doing the work to get the internet likes. And he did get those and he didn’t like them because they were from men. Because men are like this. 9:03 9 minutes, 3 seconds Hello, I have noticed you. We say too much too fast. And women are like this. 9:09 9 minutes, 9 seconds What do you want? Be nice. Here’s niceness. Ew, not from you. Women say too little, too slowly. In other words, 9:16 9 minutes, 16 seconds when men see something they like, they will say it out loud immediately. And when women see something they like, they 9:24 9 minutes, 24 seconds don’t say it out loud right away. They see it. And then after careful judgment, they figure out how they feel about it. 9:33 9 minutes, 33 seconds And then later, when it’s safe, they’ll say it out loud. if you’re lucky. Women will say muscles don’t impress me and 9:40 9 minutes, 40 seconds then later leave a bite mark on your bicep. So, the research is clear. Women like stronger men and the internet is 9:48 9 minutes, 48 seconds fake. What you see people saying is not what they actually feel. She thinks all these guys want to marry her and women 9:55 9 minutes, 55 seconds think that men think like women and men think that women think like men. It’s a mess. So, it is worth it to work out and 10:02 10 minutes, 2 seconds it’s not worth it to listen to Tik Tok girls. Just remember this image. When a woman tells you what she wants, she’s not telling you the most important part 10:10 10 minutes, 10 seconds because she thinks that you should just know. And then remember this one. Women don’t say the stuff they like out loud 10:17 10 minutes, 17 seconds cuz it makes them look bad. And when your DMs fill up with men, men. Only men. 10:23 10 minutes, 23 seconds That doesn’t mean they’re the ones who like it. It means you have to go outside and make women feel safe telling you what they really think. Only one girl 10:32 10 minutes, 32 seconds ever DM’d me and said, “Uh, yes, I am inquiring about the muscle pictures, and it was this one.” And there was a very 10:39 10 minutes, 39 seconds big power difference in that relationship, if you know what I mean. 10:43 10 minutes, 43 seconds The ones who go straight for your body are probably not the ones you want to keep. So, the reason you’re frustrated is because you expect women to come 10:51 10 minutes, 51 seconds straight after you like you probably go after them. And they’re not going to do that. Even if they do like what they see, they’re just going to drop a hanky 10:59 10 minutes, 59 seconds and you have to notice and go, “Oh, was that did you want my attention?” So, do work out. It is worth it. Do not listen 11:07 11 minutes, 7 seconds to feminists. It is never worth it. And remember, when women show their bodies, 11:12 11 minutes, 12 seconds they get men in the DMs. And when men show their bodies, they get men in the DMs because that is what men do. We go 11:19 11 minutes, 19 seconds in the DMs. If you want women in your DMs, you don’t show your body. you show yourself with other women. This will 11:28 11 minutes, 28 seconds make them chase you. This will make them like you. If she chases you and gets you and she never really liked you, she’s just going to go, “Gh, why did I do 11:36 11 minutes, 36 seconds this? I thought I like this guy and I don’t. I just want to take him away from other women.” So, men like women in one 11:44 11 minutes, 44 seconds way and women like men in two ways, and they’ll only tell you about the one that doesn’t work. Do the other one first. 11:52 11 minutes, 52 seconds Hit the gym. and that was created by men. 11:56 11 minutes, 56 seconds At the end of her video, she accidentally gives some good advice. 12:00 12 minutes So, the amount of time and effort you have put into getting that build, I suggest putting the equal time and effort into your personality and understanding what women actually want. 12:10 12 minutes, 10 seconds She was trying to say that you should put your energy into good guy stuff instead of attractive stuff, but she 12:18 12 minutes, 18 seconds accidentally said to treat them both equal, which is the perfect strategy. 12:22 12 minutes, 22 seconds This is why they chase you. This is why they keep you. Remember to like, share, 12:27 12 minutes, 27 seconds follow, subscribe, and click the link in my bio for all my stuff.